Three years

Today marks three years since Ben passed from his earthly body and entered the gates of heaven. Three long years. Yet three short years. Thanks to Facebook memories, the last three weeks have been a daily reminder of what was happening with Ben as he was in the hospital. The easiest way to keep people […]

Twenty five years

Twenty-five years is a long time for most anything. These days it is an eternity for a marriage with so many ending in divorce and many choosing to forego marriage altogether. Those that make it to that silver anniversary have surely gone through many ups and downs. There have been good times and bad times. […]

Decisions

Decisions, decisions, decisions. Everyday is full of decisions. We all make many decisions each day. From what to wear to what to eat to what TV show to watch or what book to read. Most decisions we make are routine. Often they don’t have a right or a wrong answer. Then comes along the big […]

You are loved

One thing Ben seldom bought me was cut flowers. I have bought more cut flowers in the last year than he did in our 22 years of marriage. They bring me happiness and I enjoy their beauty and their fragrance. Even though I rarely received cut flowers from Ben, he always was sure to spoil me on Valentine’s […]

A new year

A new year has come. Last year is in the rear view mirror. All the plans and goals for 2023 give way to new plans and goals for 2024. For me, 2023 was the second full calendar year that Ben never saw. As I look back over the year there are so many things that Ben missed. So many times […]